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8 responses to “Your friends make you fat”

  1. kate

    Even if you buy into the idea of fat being a problem (when actually being obsessed with fat, diet & exercise is a far bigger problem) the conclusion that men tend to have friends who look the same is hardly revolutionary. People generally have friends from the same ethnic background (hello shared genes!), they often work in similar environments (with similar levels of work-related activity), and then they tend to hang out together (because they enjoy each other’s company) so they eat together, and they do activities together (anyone for golf?). So whatever shared genetic tendencies they have are encouraged along by shared diet & exercise regimes.

    Why that doesn’t happen with women is interesting, but I don’t know why it would be. A friend and I got in the habit of refusing to engage in any talk of weight with our friends many years ago. The fact that we felt it necessary to formulate a policy on that is indicative of how much energy women waste thinking and talking about their efforts to ‘perfect’ their bodies.

  2. MatildaZQ

    Heh, I’d noticed the “gaps” in the reporting on this, as well. Yes, media reports on science are always painful, but what’s being left out of this seems more than coincidental.

    On a related note, I have noticed that since I’ve lost weight over the last two years, people almost always comment that both I and the Zombie King have really slimmed down. He’s lost a bit of weight, just because I’m cooking with less calorie-dense foods, and so on, but he’s only lost maybe 3% of his body weight or so, whereas I’ve lost more like 33%. It’s more than just politeness to him, too, as they will often keep remarking on it to me when he’s not around. Not that I care, I love my doughy guy and I didn’t lose weight for anyone but myself, but it’s happened a remarkable number of times.

  3. Mindy

    BMI is pretty unreliable I think. On TJ’s blog some time ago she was talking about BMI and one of the fitness instructors who is a tall, very heavily muscled man with less than 10% body fat, but his BMI puts him the the obese category. I don’t think it adequately allows for bone density either. As a woman with size 14 shoulder bones, hip bones and size 10 feet I don’t think that I should share a BMI with someone of the same height but much slighter build.

  4. Pandagon :: Having fat friends does not hurt your standing in the patriarchy :: July :: 2007

    [...] What was not emphasized in most reports: The correlation between fat friends and gaining weight only held for men. [...]

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