Lauredhel has written 1374 posts for Hoyden About Town

Lauredhel is an Australian woman with a disability. She blogs about feminism, reproductive justice, freedom from violence, the use and misuse of language, medical science, being disabled, her garden, and whatever else pops into her head. Lauredhel also blogs at FWD/Forward (feminists with disabilities), scribbles at her personal dreamwidth journal Selective and Arbitrary, and co-moderates Hollaback Australia. She joined Hoyden About Town in 2007.

46 responses to “You – You – You – Non-cookie-cutter feminist, you!”

  1. Darrin Hodges

    Everyone should read this EFA article – “Labor’s Mandatory ISP Internet Blocking Plan

    [Mod note: Darrin, you're welcome to have your say here on this issue so long as you follow our comment guidelines, but I choose not to host links to your site. ...lauredhel]

  2. Phillip Molly Malone

    One question is who decides what we can look at on the web. Well people already decide what we can look at or listen too. They do it for TV/Radio/Papers/Mags/etc/etc. This is the same beast and any argument that it is different is just scare mongering in the same vain as the Howard government used over the war on Terror.
    Could the government under this schema block a pro abortion website? Yes. Could a terrorist blow me up at the Footy next year? Yes. Are either likely? No!!!!

    JMTC
    Molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

  3. Darrin Hodges

    “Phillip Molly Malone”, One of the great thing about this internet thing is that you get your information unfiltered and ultimately it’s up to you on how you deal with it. All the sources you have mentioned are limited by commercial interests – this dictates the scope of their news coverage for example. For example, I’m not expecting to see this story on Australian MSM anytime soon.

  4. Phillip Molly Malone

    But Darrin, this isn’t an arguement against that Government putting age restrictions on websites that if they were on free to air would have a rating. This is an argument of why the Web is the greatest mass communication tool we have ever had.

    The story you list isn’t going to be blocked by the government.
    As I say, its valid to argue the Clean Filter won’t work. Its valid to say that we shouldn’t have censorship (Web or TV or Radio, etc). But the arguments people are making against the Clean Filter are mainly based on Scare Mongering.

    JMTC
    Molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

  5. Phillip Molly Malone said: One question is who decides what we can look at on the web. Well people already decide what we can look at or listen too. They do it for TV/Radio/Papers/Mags/etc/etc. This is the same beast and any argument that it is different is just scare mongering in the same vain as the Howard government used over the war on Terror.

    Yes, we have censorship here in Australia. We have censorship on two levels – there’s the governmental level, where they declare that certain images, concepts and levels of violence are going to be improper for all people to view openly, and therefore advise that viewing should be restricted to certain age groups. Then there’s the corporate censorship, where the media owners, editors, and similar decide which concepts are “news”, which ones are “entertainment”, which are “appropriate” and which are “inappropriate” (where appropriate is defined as being very similar to “will sell more product”). Given the already close control of the Australian mediaplex (three family corporations control the majority of Australia’s newspapers, magazines, and television; radio is also similarly constrained to a few nation-wide networks) the internet currently acts as a useful source of alternative points of view, or information about ideas, events and concepts that our governmental and corporate overlords don’t consider to be “interesting enough”.

    The next point is one I’ve made before in a number of different fora: the internet is not just the web. The world wide web of pages and services which can be accessed through the hypertext transfer protocol is a large part of the internet, yes. But it isn’t the be-all and end-all of it. There are things like email (Simple Mail Transfer Protocol), newsgroups (Networked News Transfer Protocol), file sharing (File Transfer Protocol; please note that not all file sharing is copyright infringement, nor is it illegal), chat networks (internet relay chat, various messaging protocols), as well as things like various multiplayer online games. All of those are part of the internet, and I know I haven’t listed all of the components.

    Now, let’s add to the complexity: these proposals aren’t just banning “pornography” – whatever that is (and nobody, to the best of my knowledge, has been able to come up with a workable definition of the difference between porn and erotica). They’re also aimed at things like “violence”. So what counts as “violence”? Does torture where there’s no blood shed count? Does psychological abuse fit under the heading of “violence”? Will things which are wholly virtual (such as the world of “World of Warcraft”) fit into the criteria, or won’t they?

    So far my largest objection is not that censorship of the internet has been proposed. My largest objection is it’s a simple, band-aid solution being proposed for a large and complex series of different problems, processes and issues, covering a vast range of technical and social fields. I haven’t heard enough to be able to make an informed decision (thanks to our tightly-controlled media, and its preference for stories that sell – civil liberties stories don’t sell until someone is getting hurt by their absence) on whether this proposal is a workable one or not.

  6. Phillip Molly Malone

    Meg makes some good points but on the “Band aid” solution, it is, and people will workaround it but that is their choice and they have to actively do that and to me, they should be able too (as long as they aren’t breaking some other law. e.g. Kiddy porn, etc).

    I also think if this is the main argument, then that would would be something to base an attack on the policy on, but others are using it to pass out their conspiracy theories making the argument a bit of a joke really.

    JMTC
    Molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

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  8. tigtog

    Heh – Robinson has got all upset that people want to debate her unsupported assertions. Apparently that’s harrassment!

    I am not in a position to debate any specific details of the clean feed with you. No-one knows the details because they haven’t been released yet. So harassing me will achieve nothing.

    She’s closed the thread now.

    Really, scolding all the people expressing reservations about the cleanfeed proposal as scaremongers and pornsupporters, claiming that we’re all just promoting worst case scenarios and conspiracy theories in a hysterical fashion, and then the moment a handful of people respond by questioning her own assertions – that’s Armageddon. What a gutless performance.

  9. Helen

    Oh, great. So I’m the last comment in a thread where the owner of the blog chucks a fit and claims harassment (for no good reason, I was being mildly snarky but not abusive or threatening.) Therefore I go down in history as someone who harasses poor mainstream feminists.

    The joke being, if you don’t read my blog, I’m about as radical as Strawberry Quik. (American readers, you assume we can decipher all your popular food references, so google if you’re confused).

    I pity the poor woman if she ever actually engages with the US feminist blogosphere!

    My beef with the whole thing is: if Robinson can post an entire post saying what she thinks about the whole thing based on information that is currently available before “the details are released”, yet she refuses to engage in any comments because the details aren’t released – and keeps reiterating that as the reason why none of our reservations are valid. So, why did she feel able to write on it in the first place, if that’s such an overriding concern?

    Helen’s last blog post..Image for 2007: Activist Angels

  10. Deborah Robinson

    Lauredhel – Although we do have different views on this issue, I should never have criticised you on my blog and for that I apologise. I would like to call a truce.

    I wish you and your readers well.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Duncan Riley and I Call a Truce

  11. Deborah Robinson

    Lauredhel – we will have to agree to disagree on our definitions of personal attacks. I never said you attacked me personally. I have no problem with engaging in debate. But when people attack me personally, like any other human being it does upset me.

    As a feminist writer you must received the occasional hate mail and personal attack. I know many feminist writers in the USA receive these on a regular basis. So please do not trivialise what I have been through. I did receive personal attacks and as I’ve told you before, I didn’t publicise the worst of these because I wasn’t prepared to give a forum to this lunatic fringe.

    I went to Duncan Riley and urged him to cease fire after he had published a further two articles about me. But there were others, just not so high profile as Duncan. I intially called Duncan an “idiot” because his argument was just idiotic. But he went much, much further than that when attacking me. Anyway, I am glad I contacted him to call a truce because the whole episode was taking focus away from the real issues.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Duncan Riley and I Call a Truce

  12. Phillip Molly Malone

    Its good to see that both Lauredhel and Deborah want to debate the points. Some don’t! Duncan seems to want to play the man not the ball. For instance, he attacked Deborah. Also, when someone wants to debate his points of view, he censors their comments (ironic, I know). Have a look at this post by duncan: Will Second Life, Skype, Even Google Be Blocked By The Australian Government? no comments right? Well actually, have a look at this screenshot I grabbed before it was deleted: http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2128/2173987418_4c6eea639a_o_d.jpg

    Hmmm….I guess Duncan really isn’t so against Censor ship after all!
    Molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

  13. Deborah Robinson

    Molly, I applaud your efforts. But please be careful, I don’t want to see you become the next target.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..All for Women Blog Carnival – 7 January 2008 Edition

  14. tigtog

    Molly, you are being disingenuous in my opinion, in your comments about free speech and censorship with respect to Duncan Riley. (this is not to defend Duncan particularly, but a general point)

    The right to free speech means that no person or government agency can stop someone expressing their opinions in the public street or park. If someone stands outside my house screaming obscenities I may be offended but I have no right to stop them, and neither does the State unless they are also issuing threats or inciting an upset to public order.

    However, free speech doesn’t mean (and has never meant) that anyone can say anything they like on someone else’s private property. [link] Blogs are publications where comments are submitted for consideration for publication, just like sending a Letter to the Editor of a newspaper. Just like Editors of newspapers, blog owners are under no obligation to publish every submission they receive.

    As far as this relates to the matter of curtailing undesirable internet content, this is a matter for individual households in my opinion. Just as you educate your children to put the MP3 player headphones on if obscenities are being screamed out in the street, and to (hopefully) not flick through or buy the “busty beauty” magazines in your local filling station or newsagent, you educate them to use spam filters, to not click on the occasional unsolicited emails that get past the spam filters, and to feel a distaste for exploitative objectified pornography by modelling a healthy, respectful, open model of adult sexuality for them to admire and wish to emulate, instead of modelling embarrassment, shame, disgust and inadvertently enhancing the glamour of forbidden fruit.

    I would much rather that my children be inoculated rather than reared in a plastic bubble that leaves them with no natural defences.

  15. Phillip Molly Malone

    Hi Tigtog,
    I think you make some good points and won’t reply to them here as Lauredhel has nicely asked me not and I could understand her point of view and the way in which she didn’t just delete my comment but instead let me know that she didn’t want that conversation held on her “private property”. I wouldn’t even mind if she choose to delete or not publish the comment and instead emailed me and with her comment. \
    So I will take her advice and pull my finger out and put up a post on one of my blogs.

    TIA and sorry to Lauredhel.
    Molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

  16. tigtog

    Ha, Lauredhel’s comment and mine crossed, but her pithier explanation makes the same point more efficiently.

  17. Deborah Robinson

    I would like to say one thing about Freedom of Speech — I have to be careful about every word I say in this debate now because there are so many willing to jump down my throat. Some (not anyone here) have talked about freedom of speech and then did everything they could to silence me. Doesn’t that make them hypocrites? I know it was my choice to be silent, but how much choice did Mr Riley and his supporters really give me?

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  18. tigtog

    Molly, now my comment and yours crossed, making my comment at #20 look as if it’s rather dismissive if people don’t pay attention to the timestamps.

    Thank you for honouring Lauredhel’s wishes. When you’ve written your post do feel free to drop by and leave a link to it.

    Deborah,

    how have people attempted to silence you? Robust debate is not censorship, it’s effective rhetoric and logic.

    Edited to add: I had never heard of Duncan Riley until you posted here and I followed a link to your blog. If you hadn’t responded to them, nobody probably would have noticed his posts about you. It’s a bit rich to promote your argument with an interlocutor when you think it’s going your way and then to cry foul when the direction of play goes against you.

  19. Deborah Robinson

    Tigtog – Do you honestly think comparing me to the Nazis was not an attempt to silence me? There were lots more which I won’t go into here. How would this make you feel?

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  20. tigtog

    Do I think such ploys are unethical and slimy? Yes. Do I think they are censorship? No.

  21. Phillip Molly Malone

    Aghhhh… Okay. I would have made the point on his blog but you short of probably get the point why I didn’t.

    So Tigtog, yep you are right and support the heck out of Duncan’s right to blocking any of my comments and if he contacted me and told me why he blocked it, I probably wouldn’t comment on his blog but to just secretly delete the comment seems like you have a secret reason to do it.

    But my point is that he shouldn’t be allowed to do, my point is doesn’t it make his argument seem a little weak or weaker. Also he let a whole heap of he says/she say comments between himself and Deborah and others commenting on Deborah and a bunch of name calling but deletes my comment that looks at his post and disagrees with it. So surely he can’t argue that he is keeping his blog clean as he didn’t. It just seems to me that he uses the deleting as a way to avoid having to defend his opinion that have no basis to back them up.

    Also I think the debate should be on the Censorship of all media and not just the internet as that is what this policy is trying to do. Set the internets censorship up the same as the rest of the media’s consorship. Instead Duncan and others are trying to argue that it is the Gov. trying to take away free speech and block people that don’t agree with them.

    JMTC
    molly

    Phillip Molly Malone’s last blog post..What would happen if the 12 days of Christmas really happened?

  22. Deborah Robinson

    They were under-handed ploys to shut me up–that is censorship by one group to silence an individual. There is no logic in that.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  23. Deborah Robinson

    Deleting Molly’s comments are censorship and makes my point that some in this debate are hypocrites and are not worthy of your defence. When you belittle what they have done which you have done in this case, you are defending them and they are not worthy of that just because you are on the same side of a debate.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  24. tigtog

    Deborah, now you are imputing motives to me just because I’m not agreeing with your arguments.

    My views on what does and does not constitute an infringement of free speech are longstanding and are well explained in the link I gave Molly above (which refers to a post I made in April). I have never accepted the argument that deleting comments on a blog is censorship – anyone is free to publish their own blog with one of the free hosting services and say whatever they like on their own blog. There is no right to have one’s comments published on someone else’s blog.

    As to statements someone else made against you on someone else’s blog: I didn’t read them because I didn’t care to, and you could have made the same choice, and how much power would their words have had over you then? Without actual power over your means of publishing your words, no-one else can censor you. They can influence you, if you let them, but they can’t censor you. Please don’t lazily conflate the definitions of words.

  25. Mindy

    I have found swearing at the computer screen, turning off the computer and refusing to engage the most effective method. Of course I often sneak back later to see if they are talking about me, and dammit, as soon as I’m gone I seem to be forgotten! The inconsiderate bastards.

    Mindy’s last blog post..Why we should pay more attention to D&D

  26. Deborah Robinson

    tigtog – it has nothing to do with you not agreeing with my arguments, I don’t have any problem with that at all and I’m happy to debate the issue of clean feeds and ISP filtering until the cows come home.

    I take your point that I could have ignored what was said about me by Riley and that was mistake. But the same could have been said here when I initially criticised what was written on this blog (remember I didn’t name the writer). The writers here could have ignored it, but they didn’t. So you must know how hard it is to ignore criticism.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  27. tigtog

    Why this cheap shot then? It was certainly impugning my motives:

    you are defending them and they are not worthy of that just because you are on the same side of a debate.

    You have not apologised for that in light of the information given to you that my position is not newly adopted simply in response to this discussion.

    But the same could have been said here when I initially criticised what was written on this blog (remember I didn’t name the writer).

    That makes no difference when you link to the blog post, does it? As soon as someone clicks on the link they see who the writer is.

    The writers here could have ignored it, but they didn’t. So you must know how hard it is to ignore criticism.

    The difference is, Deborah, that Lauredhel and I are not complaining that we are being attacked. Frankly, we rather enjoy a bit of a stoush. You, it appears, do not. Horses for courses.

  28. Deborah Robinson

    I have to apologise to you because I disagree with you? I don’t agree with you that deleting comments on a blog is censorship. I don’t agree with your view that I wasn’t personally attacked and you won’t me to apologise for that?

    You have not apologised for that in light of the information given to you that my position is not newly adopted simply in response to this discussion.

    The difference is, Deborah, that Lauredhel and I are not complaining that we are being attacked. Frankly, we rather enjoy a bit of a stoush. You, it appears, do not. Horses for courses.

    No, the difference is that you apply a different standard to yourself than you do to others. You said I should have ignored it. I said then by your logic, you should have ignored what I said in reference to this blog. You then said above quote. But the difference is I didn’t personally attack you and that is a big, big difference. If you can’t see that, then maybe you need to examine your own bias.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  29. Deborah Robinson

    tigtog – after receiving a barrage of criticism, personal attacks from others in regards to this issue, I am very touchy and i got very upset when told I was personally attacked because I know that wasn’t true.

    I do apologise to you. I have no wish to offend you or anyone associated with this blog.

    Unfortunately I’m taking the brunt of the backlash for the government’s decision only because I’m the only one willing to debate the issue on the Internet. Yes, it’s my choice but it still hasn’t made the last few days any easier.

    All I ever wanted to do is to support this move by the government because it restricts access to porn and violence. I hate porn and violence and as the mother of two boys, I don’t want my kids generation to grow up exposed to it. It’s everywhere on the Internet. I hate porn because it exploits women and as the mother of two sons, I’m trying to teach them to respect women. But there are so many other influences out there contradicting us mums.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  30. Deborah Robinson

    what I meant to say is “I got very upset when told I wasn’t personally attacked because I know that’s not true”

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  31. tigtog

    I have to apologise to you because I disagree with you?

    You really don’t appear to spend the necessary time reading to fully comprehend what is written. You wrote that I was only defending Riley (for deleting comments from his blog) because he was on my side in this debate. I have shown you that I have held the position that declining to publish submitted comments is not censorship for a long time before this debate. That slur on my motives is the matter for which I wish to receive an apology.

    I’m not willing to debate you further until you do apologise for that false imputation.

  32. tigtog

    Agh, I was replying to #33 above, and then when the comment was published there was #34 and #35.

    Deborah, I don’t require an apology from you for engaging in debate or disagreeing on many of the issues. You are perfectly entitled to continue to disagree, and hopefully we can engage in dissenting debate with a modicum of decorum.

    There is one and only one specific comment of yours for which I require an apology, and I have explained it in detail above, as you seem confused by what offended me.

  33. Deborah Robinson

    I was confused as to what offended you. It seems we were talking about two different things. I wasn’t referring to your opinion that deleting comments isn’t censorship. I was referring to your comments:

    how have people attempted to silence you? Robust debate is not censorship, it’s effective rhetoric and logic

    This upset me because I feel I have been silenced. I could never have this debate on my blog because it is being monitored. I know this because Duncan told me himself.

    I just re-read through your comments and now see where you were offended. Correct me if I’m wrong:

    Deleting Molly’s comments are censorship and makes my point that some in this debate are hypocrites and are not worthy of your defence. When you belittle what they have done which you have done in this case, you are defending them and they are not worthy of that just because you are on the same side of a debate

    I do apologise because I can see the way it reads makes it look like I said you were defending Duncan because he deleted comments and you both oppose the clean feed. Of course, I apologise because this was never my intent. Anyway, I’m sick of talking about Mr Riley.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  34. Deborah Robinson

    By the way, I take your point about providing the link to the post on this blog so I have removed it from the article where it appeared on the website. There is now nothing identifying this blog on Australian Women Online except the trackback link to this post which I am happy to remove if you want me to.

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

  35. tigtog

    Thanks for that, Deborah.

    I too can see how you feel that you have been bullied. I still think that there is an important semantic distinction between abuse on another person’s blog and actual censorship, I can of course also see that such distinctions can seem very academic when you are feeling so vilified.

    I’m no fan of cyberbullies, and my defence of a blog-owner’s right to decline to publish submitted comments does not extend to failing to recognise the hypocrisy in deleting only comments from those who aren’t part of the fan club in a heated discussion.

    Anyway,

    All I ever wanted to do is to support this move by the government because it restricts access to porn and violence.

    If it actually would restrict access to porn and violence, there wouldn’t be so many people arguing with you.

  36. tigtog

    Regarding removing the link from your post – I appreciate that the action was well-meant but it is, I think, unnecessary. However, this is Lauredhel’s post and that’s her call, not mine.

  37. Deborah Robinson

    I’m out of this debate (see my post at http://viv.id.au/blog/?p=1286).

    Take care everyone.

    Deborah Robinson
    http://www.australianwomenonline.com

    Deborah Robinson’s last blog post..Sexism alive and doing well in Australia

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