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16 responses to “Quickhit: “wives worry about temptation under the sea “”

  1. Mark

    … of course it’s not possible that any of the men serving on a submarine might “develop feelings for each other and have bad things happen”… that could only happen if there were women present…

  2. minna

    Ugh ugh ugh. I’m cautiously hopeful all the same, if this McKinnon dude is going to have anything to do with it since his opinion seems to come back to LOOK THEY’RE GROWN-UPS IT’LL BE FINE.

    @mark isn’t the us navy subject to don’t ask don’t tell & thus going to operate on the assumption all their people are heterosexual? I could be wrong. >_<

  3. caffeineadddict

    “Some sailors and wives warn that putting men and women together in extremely close quarters underwater for weeks at a time is just asking for sexual harassment cases and wrecked marriages.”

    How could anyone dignify that by putting it in writing? Gawd.

  4. Helen

    Mark and Minna beat me to it – LOL!

    AND:

    Stop worrying about Teh UST and START WORRYING ABOUT THE GIANT UNDERSEA SNOT.

    One of those could swallow up a small sub and you’d never see it again. Well, you wouldn’t want to.

  5. DeusExMacintosh

    And did anyone bother to consider that some of these new submariners might be wives themselves? Are their husbands getting their tightie whities in a twist too?

    (And quite frankly, living at that close quarters with that many guys… it’s more likely to put you off them.)

  6. slave2tehtink.livejournal.com/

    I spent 9 1/2 years, roughly, in the US Navy, with about half of that on surface ships. My co-workers (both male and female) spent a lot of time passing each other in teeny tiny passageways, and SHOCKINGLY nobody got accused of sexual harrassment for the accidental brush-ups that happened. Accusations of sexual harrassment got made when people were (SHOCKINGLY) going out of their way to harrass people. Hell, we didn’t even report the creepy guys who would come up behind you while you were on watch or in line for food and start pulling shit like sniffing your hair.

    @DeusExMacintosh – I chalk up my total reluctance to be in a heterosexual relationship to my time at sea. I heard how even the “nice” guys talk about women when they think it’s just other men around; I don’t want to be with anyone who’s going to pull that shit and since I have no way to know if any given man will, well, better to stick with dogs.

  7. Bene

    I was going to say, slave2tehtink, from my understanding of ships in the US Navy, even on the large vessels, the quarters are quite cramped regardless…and co-ed.

  8. wondering

    It’s nice that the article acknowledged that other countries already have women submariners.

    It’s amusing (and sad) to me how the US agonizes over GLBT folks serving in the military, women serving in combat arms, women serving in submarines when there are so many examples of other countries that have an inclusive military without all the whinging.

    Though I guess that goes for universal/single payer healthcare and same sex marriage too.

  9. Shelby

    @slave etc., Re your comment on what even nice guys say about women. I saw the movie Funny People yesterday. The way the male characters spoke about women made me absolutely sick and embarrassed. I think it’s kinda like internet porn – desensitizing us to the fact that well laydeez, this is what we really think of you, this is how we talk about you bitches – get used to it, cause you’re going to be hearing alot more of it. Fuck them.

  10. dogpossum

    “What would happen if a woman discovered at sea that she was pregnant?”

    Submarine would blow up.

  11. lauredhel

    “Submarine would blow up.”

    Instantly. In a shower of pink glitter sparkles, alerting the enemy.

  12. Rebekka

    Lauredhel, that made me have to do a picture. Can has admin magix pls?

    http://bekk.blogspot.com/2009/10/blog-post.html

  13. Liam

    Every time someone looks at that picture, a single tear falls down Tom Clancy’s face.

  14. OuyangDan

    OH! Rebekka! Can I borrow that pic (w/ attribution, natch!)! That is the funniest thing ever!

    Ya know, funny thing about the Navy. Women have been serving on surface vessels for 16+ years, and our uteri haven’t managed to sink a ship yet, ya know, despite our best efforts!

  15. ginmar

    You know, if my hubbie thought I was just a hormonal animal who’d be tempted by any dick-having creature that walked by, I might be tempted, too. Who knows? Sounds like she’s kind of boasting about her man and taking a swipe at those sea borne hussies. I know this kind of trope all too well—-their hubbies were could run the gamut, but the wives seemed to view military women with great suspicion. I don’t know. But adults don’t seem to have this kind of problem at all.

    Thanks for intoducing me to sea snot. I feel so much slimier now.

  16. Rebekka

    You can totally use the pic, I’m pleased you like it!

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