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7 responses to “Why I Would Rather Let My Son Watch X-Men than Bob the Builder”

  1. Tansy Rayner Roberts

    I feel the same way about superhero cartoons, most of which are many, many times better at representing female heroes than the comics they stem from. Allow me to pitch from the DC side of the fence! (though our family also loves X-Men and Avengers)

    I bought Justice League Unlimited for my then-five-year-old daughter because it was the only way to get hold of a Supergirl story that felt age appropriate and she was expressing interest in her as a character based on an image she had seen.

    But what a wonderful discovery it was! Not only Supergirl, but more than a dozen interesting female characters mixed up in its enormous, rotating ensemble. There were even some all-female team ups.

    Not only is this great for my girls, who play happily with action figures as well as Barbies and fairies, it’s great for my friend’s 3 sons, and for our kids finding something awesome to play together. My daughters don’t have to fight over who gets to play the one girl character when they’re all playing superheroes. And I was delighted that my 3 year old godson went for at least a year when Wonder Woman was his favourite superhero, and role model. Captain America has now replaced her in his heart, but how awesome that he was exposed to the idea that a woman could be the coolest of the superheroes!

    When your son starts reading I recommend you invest in a stack of “Tiny Titans” trade paperbacks. These are some of the best kids comic books in the business, basically all the DC superheroes (including what feel like equal numbers of girls and boys) reinterpreted as if they were in a modern version of Peanuts, and all the kids of my acquaintance (and adults) think it’s wonderful. As my daughter said with great relish, she loves it because “it’s not girlie or boy-y, it’s just about kids”.

    I wish more stuff for our children really was just for and about kids without all the ridiculous pink/guns separation.

  2. Jason

    What about Avatar (the Nick series, not the Cameron movie)? It’s not perfect, but it gets better and better (especially into the second season).

  3. orlando

    it’s not girlie or boy-y, it’s just about kids”.

    That sounds perfect!

    Jason, I’ve been told I should look at the Legend of Korra series, is that one of the ones you recommend?

  4. PharaohKatt

    Orland:

    You should watch Avatar: The Last Airbender before watching Avatar: The Legend of Korra. Korra follows on from the first one.

    It’s also really cool. And really well made. Check out http://atla-annotated.tumblr.com/ for info about the small details included in the series. I’d definitely recommend it for young children. And old children. And adults.

  5. Jason

    Definitely watch The Last Airbender before Korra. But definitely watch Korra too :)

    I don’t want to spoil the best bits of the series, but some of my favourite aspects were:

    1. “Team Avatar” are children, more or less. But unlike a great many other shows and movies with child protagonists, they’re not ignored or dismissed by adults, and they’re not privy to some experience of the world that adults can’t see. Some grownups help, some hinder. Some are allies, some are enemies. But they all inhabit the same reality.

    2. Iroh.

    3. A certain earth bender. (If you’re looking for it, you might notice that they often try make it clear that the writers haven’t just lazily erased her disability with magic.)

  6. tigtog

    Moving away from superheroes, and on the understanding that I haven’t yet watched it myself, the fact that so many adults I know online are fans of female-centred stories of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic makes me think it’s worth checking out.

  7. Aphie

    We are big, big fans on MLP: FiM in this house, tigtog. All 3 of us watch the shows, and the Tiny Tyrant is very into it. It’s certainly not without its issues, but I for one really love that it is female-centred, so he gets a sense that girls have stuff going on, and are interesting, complex and complete characters/people in their own rights. It’s also about navigating interpersonal relationships, with rarely anything vaguely romantic going on, but more siblings and friends with different tastes and personalities having to negotiate that.

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