Article written by Lauredhel

Lauredhel is an Australian woman and mother with a disability. She blogs about social justice, reproductive justice, freedom from violence, the use and misuse of language, medical science, being disabled, her garden, and whatever else pops into her head.

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13 responses to “Yet another case of “Shh! Don’t mention the rape!” from a judge”

  1. Beppie

    What the FUCK!!?

    If it makes him feel better, why can’t he use the term “statutory rape”, but honestly, don’t ANY of these people even CONSIDER that maybe children who have been sexually abused are taught to lie and say that they consented (often through threats)– or are even convinced that they consented to it by manipulative abusive scum?

    I have a really hard time believing that the judge would have made that call had the victim been white.

  2. Different view

    “Justice Trevor Riley told the court the case is not about rape because there is no issue of consent.”

    I took this to mean that one of the defining features of rape is that it is sex without consent. In this case, the child is clearly well below the age of consent. It doesn’t mean that the charge of child abuse is a lesser charge than rape, it just indicates that there is no room to argue that it was a consent issue.

    In light of the issue in Queensland, I never thought that the above paragraph would make sense to me either. But that was before a 26 year old man walked away from sexually abusing a child with the comment that he partook in childish experimentation.

  3. Rebekka

    Hello? Age of consent? Does this men nothing any more??
    and this-
    “little to do in the community led to the sexual offences.” WTF?

    Oh, I got bored, so I molested and raped a child???

  4. Fimail

    i guess it could be interpreted to mean that the issue of consent isn’t relevant to a child under the age of consent. therefore any instance of sexual intercourse with a child would be without consent. By contrast ‘rape’ would imply that there are two types of sex with children – consentual sex and rape whereas all such occurances by definition have no consent in the equation.

    Why anyone would make such a distinction is obviously questionable.

  5. Fimail

    I’m very tired tonight, it’s possible that what i just wrote makes no sense, but it made sense to me at the time :) .

  6. Rebekka

    Er, men should read mean, obvs. That’s what comes of typing while eating.

  7. Different view

    “genital penetration of someone without consent” is of course the meaning of rape and it is even more heinus when a child is involved. But that definition also implies that you have the ability to give consent in the first place. Children don’t and consent was an argument used in defence of the men in Queensland. I can only see this as a meaning to ensure the same approach is not taken here.

    Being a victim of child molestation is still such a horrid situation and I believe labelling it as such is in no way a lesser charge than rape.

    It is our legal system that defines what we call this assault, not our language and there is a space in the system that differentiates child abuse and child molestation from abuse and rape in adults.

  8. Different view

    If you say it was done without consent, you must have been of age to give consent in the first place.

    Yes, sexual assault does sound like a less horendous crime to many people but I’m not saying that the judge should be taking it as a view of sexual assualt either. Child Molestation is what happened to this poor boy. By focusing on the men that penetrated the child and calling for rape are we saying that whilst the two men that fondled the child did a bad thing they are only guilty of sexual assault and therefore somehow better than the other men involved in this horrendous situation?

    Lets call this and every act that interfers with a child molestation and punish all equally. Even if the offender only fondles and is caught, it is only the beginning of a horrendous pattern of behaviour.

    And yes, I too would love to see the end of the term ‘had sex with a child’ too.

  9. Mary Tracy9

    No, no one can explain this in any way that it makes sense.

    “the combination of cannabis, pornographic videos and little to do in the community led to the sexual offences.”

    Yeah, and the planets where probably aligned in the wrong way. HOW ABOUT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT YOU DID???

  10. Jennifer

    what’s the fucking point of even having an age of consent if (seemingly) every judge in the entire world is just going to say, “well, yes, but they probably consented,” ignoring the fact that THEY CAN’T FUCKING CONSENT. I don’t care if that eleven year old stripped naked and begged for it. It was not consent because he was a child and children can’t consent to sex.

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