Article written by Lauredhel

Lauredhel is an Australian woman and mother with a disability. She blogs about social justice, reproductive justice, freedom from violence, the use and misuse of language, medical science, being disabled, her garden, and whatever else pops into her head.

Lauredhel also blogs at FWD/Forward (feminists with disabilities), scribbles at her personal dreamwidth journal Selective and Arbitrary, and co-moderates Hollaback Australia. She joined Hoyden About Town in 2007.

14 responses to “I Can’t Believe You’re Disabled! Institutional Abuse and Vulnerability”

  1. M-H

    Actually, I do carp and niggle at people who use disabled parks if they haven’t got stickers. (If they have stickers then it’s between them and the RTA of whoever issues them.) I ask them why they are parked there. I report them to parking police. My late partner used to leave stickers on their cars: “Since you have my carpark, perhaps you’d also like my disability”. I believe they were really hard to remove.

  2. Fatadelic

    My partner gets guff because he’s one of the ‘walking disabled’, ie. his disability is invisible since he has end-stage renal disease. He’s often been abused after we have just parked in a disabled spot, even though he has a valid disabled parking permit clearly displayed. He has even, on occasion, flashed the PD catheter emerging from his abdomen as “proof” to people who seemed to believe he had somehow misled the RTA.

    On the other hand, in the 12 months he has had his disabled parking permit, I have never seen a car in a disabled parking spot that was not displaying a valid permit. So my theory is the whole ‘able bodied people parking in disabled spots’ thing is just ignorant people passing judgement on people with invisible disabilities.

  3. tigtog

    If I remember correctly, there is (or at least was) a genuine problem in Sydney of people having corruptly obtained disabled parking tickets in order to park for free all day every day in the CBD. It meant that genuinely disabled people could not find a disabled parking space in the city when they needed one for occasional significant appointments. There were some badly needed sting operations mounted to distinguish genuine from ersatz disabled sticker bearers so that the CBD parking could actually start to work as intended once more.

    But that’s no excuse for people to assume that every single person they see with a disabled sticker on their car who can walk is a fake. And certainly no reason for an assault like the one above on someone in a wheelchair.

  4. annaham

    God, there are no words for this.

    None.

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  5. Frank Calabrese

    In WA, the ACROD stickers are now Colour coded to distinquish between wheelchair users, the walking wounded temp holders, and vehicles used by organisations such as nursing homes, patient transport etc.

    Re the US, what do you expect when policie depts are run on at county by county status (similar to local Govt here, and not by the state.

  6. Frank Calabrese

    [Frank, your characterisation of Renewable permits as being “for wheelchair users” is 100% incorrect, and is exactly the kind of thing I’m talking about.]

    Actually, I AM in a Wheelchair, and hold an ACROD permit, and I know that the Grey permit is for those with a PERMANENT disability, of which the majority are Wheelchair users.

    Info on permit types here.

    http://www.app.org.au/pages/typespermits.htm

  7. Frank Calabrese

    [Do you have data on “the majority”?]

    It’s a bit hard when the NDS site is password protected so you cannot access anything but application forms, their Annual Report and permit information.

  8. blue milk

    That video is quite disturbing, how incredibly cruel. That poor man, helpless on the floor. I really have a difficult time reminding myself that most police are good people with good intentions and the highest regard for their fellow citizens.

    The other day I was racing for a train to work that wasn’t at my usual station because. When I raced up to the platform I realised that they didn’t have any ramps, only the longest set of stairs you ever saw. My still sleepy toddler, struggling to put her shoes on was dumped out of her pram (not unlike the video above, ok, kidding, not at all like the video above) and I hauled out all our bags – 3 for me and 3 for her and our umbrella and her raincoat and then I carried the pram and the bags painstakingly up all these stairs with her taking her teensy tiny toddler steps. Anyway, we made it to the train but not in time to buy a ticket. When we arrived in the city we discovered we had to line up for twenty minutes to pay a fine for not having a ticket. I talked my way out of it.

    But sheesh I thought, what about the people with a disability, what if they couldn’t possibly get up all those stairs at that station? Imagine the inconveniences I thought, constantly having to think which stations they can get access to and which they can’t and trying to leave enough time before they needed to be somewhere for the ritual of finding out you can’t get to this station so you will need to somehow go to another station etc etc. How frustrating to always be an after thought the way I felt at that station with all the stairs?

    Anyway, able-bodied privellege, we’re standing in it.

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  9. Helen

    On the other hand, in the 12 months he has had his disabled parking permit, I have never seen a car in a disabled parking spot that was not displaying a valid permit. So my theory is the whole ‘able bodied people parking in disabled spots’ thing is just ignorant people passing judgement on people with invisible disabilities.

    Yes, and of course, sometimes the driver of the car is a carer, because a disabled child can’t drive.

    My SIL was in that position, but now SHE’s had a stroke, so now she’s disabled too. How wonderful! :-/

    Helen’s last blog post..Friday Happy hedgehogblogging

  10. Helen

    In WA, the ACROD stickers are now Colour coded to distinquish between wheelchair users, the walking wounded temp holders, and vehicles used by organisations such as nursing homes, patient transport etc.

    Frank, WA always seems to come up trumps with regard to transport – we’ve had a lot of information about it here in Victoria, because apparently you’ve built a good public transport system, while ours is crap, so it’s news here.

    Why do you think that is?

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