Article written by tigtog

tigtog (aka Viv) lives in Sydney, Australia: husband, 2 kids, cat, house, garden, just enough wine-racks and (sigh) far too few bookshelves. You can read more about Viv on her bio page.

8 responses to “The appetite for nice things”

  1. Bernice

    Because the fabled babbles that the chaps buy sit at personal remove in the realm of the connoisseur, the impersonal. Because the nice things that many women display are about personal adornment; inherently part of the transaction of status display projected on the female body. Because what men do, still matters more.

    And the question of the role of the hand made, the unique, the precious sits like a boil, a carbuncle upon the practice of art, making and design. Art, craft only has meaning when it is accorded status – status that is very much based upon exclusivity, hierarchy of meaning be that located in precious materials, rare skills or the smug surety of the artist\’s genius.

  2. Laura

    Tigtog, if you’re the kind of person who can tolerate reading on planes (and if you’re looking for something engrossing to take on your trip) I very much recommend Mary McCarthy, either “The Group”, “Memories of a Catholic Girlhood” or “The Company She Keeps.” You would love her, I know. She’s a terrific writer, and so interesting, and has so much to say, still.

  3. Pavlov's Cat

    Snap, Laura, I too was thinking of The Group — full of brilliantly observed people and their relationship to things, finely crafted and otherwise. Worth reading for the scene of Dottie’s visit to the gynaecologist, and its aftermath, alone.

    My own take on finely-craftedness is highly coloured by the memory of my mother, of whose rare gift for making things I was a beneficiary daily for the whole of my childhood. Summer dresses, sprays of home-grown rosebuds to wear for good luck in exams, merry-go-round birthday cakes with silver-paper horses. I associate the finely crafted with unconditional love, which unfortunely skews my political take on it all to hell.

  4. Laura

    It’s hard to single out highlights of The Group. But the chapter about breastfeeding (also Dottie) is one of the best things I’ve ever read on the subject.

  5. Brownie

    I think David bittie Walliams liked it too.

    “Who’d have thunk it?”
    is the groups equivalent of “Dear Reader I married him”
    Going to see the movie of The Group was SUCH a big deal at the time – lesbians! shock horror!
    and never mind Confessions Of A Catholic Girlhood if you find a copy of an old book Confessions Of A Southern Girlhood you may be better pleased by its author Florence King a true virago. I had no idea when I read it that the line “Dear Reader I fkd him” referenced Jane Austen (because i had not heard of her) but it was still extremely droll.

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