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tigtog (aka Viv) lives in Sydney, Australia: husband, 2 kids, cat, house, garden, just enough wine-racks and (sigh) far too few bookshelves. You can read more about Viv on her bio page.

23 responses to “PM admits to being warned against inappropriate behaviour”

  1. Evil Pundit

    Stripping and hooking is not good wholesome fun. The women who do it do not like the men who pay them to do it. The smiles are all fake, boys, every single one: strippers hate you. For most of the women, the only way they can keep doing the work at all is to be high as a kite for their shift.

    Of course this means that nearly all that money from that “well paid job” (after the “manager” gets his cut) goes on feeding their drug habits. How many drug addicts do you know with happy, healthy families?

    Are there students/housewives stripping/hooking who aren’t addicts and who are investing the hard-earned in lifestyle accountrements? Certainly there are. Do they constitute more than 1 or 2 % of sex workers as a whole? They do not.

    Women resent the fantasy glamorisation of stripping as good wholesome fun.

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  2. Paul W.

    Tigtog what’s your opinion on strip clubs?

    As Anne Summers said, to “Middle Australia”, Rudd going to a strip club is a lot more normal and a lot less frightening than Mark Latham using his fists and bully tactics.

  3. blue milk

    tigtog you’ve been copping a few curve balls lately and you’ve handled them beautifully. I don’t know why I am using sports metaphors, what the hell do I know about sport?

  4. Paul W.

    A lot of people use the Chippendale dancers as a comparison point with women stripping for men but as you said there’s is more objectification, vulnerability and exploitation in what happens to women.

    I got told both sexes can objectify each other but the objectification of women leads to much worse things happening than any objectification of men.

    I’m glad i found your blog – as a left blog you are much better reading than certain others – you get tired of those people that think we can go back to the Whitlam era a generation after the Dismissal. Times change and for better or worse are not going to change back.

    Paul Williams

  5. outfox

    How predictable of the Libs to spin a morally polarising topic to discredit Rudd at this moment. It’d be funny if it weren’t that it’ll probably satisfy the goal of deflecting some media commentary away from criticising their actions re: the Emergency NT bill last Friday.

    Ignoring complaints about legislation that permits abuses within the sex industry and/or the feminised poverty that fuels that are present enough across governments that neither ALP or Libs are in a position to moralise. If they cared at all about women’s rights they’d have done a better job on the NT bill.

  6. Evil Pundit

    Good to see that Kevin “Groper” Rudd gets a free pass from the feminist Left on an issue that would see them demanding the head of any any other male on a platter.

    Just like NOW gave Bill Clinton a free pass on sexually exploiting his employees, as well as an allegation of rape from one woman.

    It’s so easy to sacrifice your principles for the sake of the Party, isn’t it, comrade sisters?

  7. Laurie

    I was pondering last night why this wasn’t bothering me as much as it should – if it was Tony Abbott, for example, I’d be outraged.

    And it occured to me that Rudd just doesn’t seem to have form as being anti-woman.

    He has a powerful female deputy leader, who he seems to respect. He has spoken, seemingly genuinely, of his respect for his wife’s business empire. These revelations seem somewhat amusing, rather than serious, because they just don’t fit.

    I guess part of the reason I struggle to believe anything the Government says is that they have a habit, demonstrated habit, over years, of lying. Rudd just dosn’t seem to have that demonstrated habit which would lead me to think that this incident fits into a pattern of negative behaviour.

  8. amphibious

    TigTog & friends – I came over here from LP because I wanted to raise the non partisan point about why it is considered acceptable for men to visit strip clubs and, if that is acceptable, why not brothels?
    However, I was glad to see that this had been more than adequately covered above.
    Please help out this mere male,if you would – listening to the vox pops on radio this morning, I don’t think I heard anyone (including the women) raise the point that a bloke who goes to strip shows must be, ipso facto, skewed in his relations with the women in his life, assuming he has a life beyond work, the pub & the porn.
    I’m all for running nekkid & bonking 24/7 if consensual but, as noted above, the commodification is the worm in the kernel.

  9. hc

    I think persecuting Kevin Rudd for this activity borders on the ludicrous. I’d be worried if he didn’t and a bit worried that he feels the need to apologise.

    Most men enjoy checking out the physical assets of a beautiful woman and many women enjoy displaying such.

    It is one of the great pleasures of being alive.

    The pale virgin shrouded in snow arise….

  10. amphibious

    T/T; thanks but I just can’t see it – go to a stripjoint, for whatever reasoon, you are complicit in every aspect. (viz a recent thread on whether viewing paedophile pics contributed to their perpetuation.)
    This bizarre sexual dystoph is the bases of so many of society’s current ills & conundrums.
    It raises the stunning popularity in the early 60s of Le Girls for women-in-groups, eg my working class mother and her friends would go several times a year.
    If you really want to bend your brain, try this – in India eunuchs are in far greater demand (by the only criterion that matter$ – charge$) as prostitutes because they are less “inhibited” than women… and this is the sad remnant of a religious system based on sexual ecstacy.
    The Dancing Boy bars of Tangiers, or most of the N African kasbahs, are far more erotically charged than the comparable femal .. oh, wait.. there aren’t any comparable female joints.
    No-one could possibly call me a wowser but I cannot conceive that commercial sex is healthy for either participant.

  11. What tigtog said, plus: when you’re stuck in two-party politics, there are total records to weigh up, and neither party or its leader is 100% perfect in every respect. When it comes to misogyny and bigotry, this is how I sum up the two options currently on the table:

    pilesofpoo

  12. Bob Brown: the Rudd scandal in perspective and in a nutshell at Hoyden About Town

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  13. amphibious

    T/T & Laura – No argument about the partisan aspect which is why i moved to this blog to seek a different view/angle.
    T/T – yeh, I know I’m not subtle but I’ve been in this since the 60s and ‘watched the best minds of my generation…’ turn to Ikea. I despair of the 2 steps forward, 3 steps back that seems to have grown worse with the current crop of yung’uns.

  14. Greg

    Rudd comes off a bit differently, depending on what selective quotes get used and what editorial interpolations are made. “Snotty” and “uppity” Rudd wanted to stay, if you believe the News Corp. report, while the Post editor, Col “[Allen]“, wanted to leave.

    Yeah, like I believe that’s the only time even this particualr Post editor was at Scores.

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