Article written by Lauredhel

Lauredhel is an Australian woman and mother with a disability. She blogs about social justice, reproductive justice, freedom from violence, the use and misuse of language, medical science, being disabled, her garden, and whatever else pops into her head.

Lauredhel also blogs at FWD/Forward (feminists with disabilities), scribbles at her personal dreamwidth journal Selective and Arbitrary, and co-moderates Hollaback Australia. She joined Hoyden About Town in 2007.

23 responses to ““Strange emotions set the young heart throbbing and mayhap seeking for a mate.””

  1. ladoctorita

    oh my god! it’s The Uterus That Ate The Intestines And Kidneys! run for your liiiiife!

    i, for one, would love to hear about “dress and its relation to health.” is that like, “if you don’t wear a scarf you’ll get the flu,” or is it more like “if you dress like a floozy you’ll end up like the masturbation-crazed vitalogy dude”?

  2. Margie in Austin, Texas

    Since I am 50-something and live in Texas where having a hot flash in 100-plus degree heat Farenheit is a real treat, talk to me about “The Change of Life, or Menopause”.

    ;-)

  3. Callie

    Glad that there’s no external access to the internal organs – that would be disgusting. I agree that ‘Dress and its Relation to Health’ sounds like it could be interesting. ‘Sex Physiology and Hygiene’ sounds worryingly intriguing.

  4. kristi

    And no doubt there will be some gems in the sex physiology and hygiene section too. But you can always just thumb through it and post whatever looks good. I love these old books.

  5. PortlyDyke

    I definitely want “On The Threshold of Womanhood”.

    I also want a uterus that big. I could stop carrying a purse.

  6. tigtog

    Oh yes – can’t show a non-pregnant uterus at its normal size now, could we? If we did that, it might not look like the most important organ.

  7. Mama Bear

    Possible caption for the anatomy picture: No external genitalia for you, young missy… That would be indecent! Also: Remember, domesticated females, that your uterus is your only reason for living.

    (Btw, did you check out the IBMP’s “exciting updates” yet? Veeeeeeeery interesting. I’d love to dialogue with you about it, but I’m still not sure if the [redacted] email account is yours. Now the IBMP’s goal is to: “…improve access to health care and nutrition for infants in impoverished nations.” Funny, I don’t think that was the goal before; their goals seem to change. I thought before it was, “to ensure that not one drop of breast milk is wasted.” Or something. I smell a big publicity stunt coming up… Stay tuned…)

  8. Rebekka

    Personally I’m dying to hear about Making Marriage A Success and Outside The Marriage Circle (perhaps this refers to steamy affairs??)

  9. Paul W.

    Is there much information available on what society was like in 1905 – the context in which this was made?

  10. Rainbow Girl

    Question: Where is her vulva?

    Answer: The giant uterus swallowed it.

  11. Paul W.

    I think you’re right that history tends to focus on those small percentage that were “modernish” or protested the system – the 90 percent that lived with the corsets and satin and lace and conformed to their culture don’t get talked aboout or are treated as “weak” and as people to be ashamed of which does them a great disservice i would say.

    It was interesting to learn that corsets were largely enforced by mothers – my great-grandmother would have been kept in corsets etc regularly by her mother – you saw similar things in old China where it was the mothers who did the foot-binding.

  12. tigtog

    Well, traditional history always overlooks the commonplace in favour of the unusual: famous individuals are famous for doing something extraordinary, whether men or women. It’s just that opportunities were historically so constrained for women that simply deciding not to get married when one was highly eligible was enough to make a woman famous (or notorious) in some circumstances.

    As for corsets and foot-binding, most cultures seem to have some essential beauty ritual without which young women will be deemed unmarriageable. The peculiarities of beauty rituals vary from culture to culture, but they are invariably time-consuming and expensive, and often painful to boot (one notes pragmatically that these practises consume time and resources for women that could otherwise be used pursuing self-sovereignty). Ensuring that daughters are marketable in pre-industrial and pre-consumerist societies is always delegated to the mother, so it’s not surprising that it’s mothers who enforce the beauty norms, just as contemporary mothers enforce the beauty rituals of today (even though young women usually find their own husbands in consumerist societies).

  13. tigtog

    Comments crossed, Lauredhel.

  14. Paul W.

    I didn’t mean to be offensive in any way – it just struck me as interesting when i read that it was the mothers who enforced it – i didn’t know the bigger picture. I’m physically disabled so i have my own problems with discrimination and society at large.

  15. tigtog

    The way that the human hierarchy encourages those in the lower ranks to enforce their own oppression is indeed fascinating, Paul.

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