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My skirt doesn't cause rape - rapists do

Some useful things you might teach your children in our rape culture

By tigtog on June 17, 2012

This particular nugget comes from Pharyngula, where a post from PZ addressing rape culture led to a predictable influx of the usual victim-blaming rape myths as if they were commensense truths, leading to a predictably forceful pushback from the Pharyngulites, who do not let that crap stand. If readers would like to add their own favourite links addressing rape myths/culture in comments, I’d really like to see them.

Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, language, parenting, relationships, violence | Tagged abuse, nuggets of awesome, rape apologism, rape culture, rape myths, sexual assault | 10 Responses

Internet Misogyny Datapoint: the hatefest aimed at Anita Sarkeesian

Internet Misogyny Datapoint: the hatefest aimed at Anita Sarkeesian

By tigtog on June 13, 2012

Every time women on the internet point out how routine it is for a woman’s mere presence on the internet to provoke squadrons of flying he-man-she-hater monkeys to post floods of vile abuse, someone reckons that it’s not really that bad and women should just get thicker skins/lighten up/stop whining etc.

Posted in culture wars, gender & feminism, media | Tagged abuse, internet, misogyny, sexism, silencing tactics | 12 Responses

Source: monkeyswithwings.com

Where to now with the #mencallmethings momentum?

By tigtog on November 11, 2011

The gendered cyber harassment campaigns are rank intimidation aimed at silencing us. We have to keep on talking about it so that they do not succeed.

Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, violence | Tagged abuse, blogging, comments policy, cyber-stalking, cyberbullying, harassment, intimidation, moderation, silencing tactics, threats | 7 Responses

Source: monkeyswithwings.com

This is a reality, and it doesn’t go away if we don’t talk about it.

By tigtog on October 12, 2011

s.e.smith has an important and powerful post up at Tiger Beatdown regarding our collective habit of silence about the hate mail bloggers receive.

Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, social justice | Tagged abuse, blogging, cyber-stalking, cyberbullying, cybersafety, hackers, threats | 11 Responses

Some of this bloke's friends will be defending him right now

Some of this bloke’s friends will be defending him right now

By tigtog on September 28, 2011

Man admits to elaborate online stalking campaign against girlfriend: will be sentenced next month after pleading guilty at Southampton magistrates’ court on Monday to a charge of causing harassment, alarm or distress.

Posted in relationships, technology, violence | Tagged abuse, cyber-stalking, cyberbullying, passive-aggressive | 13 Responses

Femmostroppo Reader  April 6, 2011

Femmostroppo Reader April 6, 2011

By tigtog on April 6, 2011

Items of interest come across recently in my feed-reader. What did I miss? Leave your own interesting links in comments.

Posted in arts & entertainment, ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, law & order, linkfest, parenting, social justice | Tagged abuse, atheism, creationism, mothering, race & racism, Read-ems, reviews, telly, trans* | 1 Response

Domestic violence - It can happen to anyone

Nina Funnell on the festive spike in domestic violence

By tigtog on December 24, 2010

A combination of financial strain, families spending more time together, and increased alcohol consumption contribute to the rise in figures. It is timely then, that this month NSW Minister for Women Jodi McKay launched a new website to offer information and practical support to victims of domestic violence and their supporters.

Posted in education, media, social justice, violence | Tagged abuse, domestic violence | 3 Responses

Assault and battery on the Amazing Race

By Lauredhel on October 26, 2009

Does anyone here keep up with The Amazing Race? I’ve just been completely wigged out by the casual showing of partner-on-partner abuse, including assault and battery. No one on the show said a word or attempted to intervene. Just expected “rougher than usual handling”, I suppose? Justified in the pursuit of a million dollars? Only [...]

Posted in arts & entertainment, gender & feminism, violence | Tagged abuse, assault, domestic violence, telly, violence | 16 Responses

Utah OB practice declares its misogyny up front

By Lauredhel on October 25, 2009

The Birth Whisperer (and just about everyplace else in the birthosphere) has published a sign posted in the Aspen Women’s Center in Utah, USA. Description: A teal sign on an office wall, reading: Because the physicians at Aspen Women’s Center care about the quality of their patient’s[sic] deliveries and are very concerned about the welfare [...]

Posted in gender & feminism, violence | Tagged abuse, birth, control, misogyny, obstetrics, reproductive justice | 37 Responses

Horrendous abuse of PWD in NSW State hospital

By Lauredhel on September 5, 2009

Concord Hospital in Sydney has admitted that they did neglect an elderly, ill man, and the New South Wales government is once again feeling the heat over healthcare standards. Cut with WARNING, for horrific negligence-inflicted injury to a person with a disability. Related posts: Horrendous autism “advocacy” video “Harmonisation” of disabled parking schemes: What are [...]

Posted in medicine, social justice, violence | Tagged ableism, abuse, australia, disability, disablism, health department, sydney | 9 Responses

Sree on Big Brother UK – harasser, homophobe, Nice Guy(tm)?

By Lauredhel on June 26, 2009

Big Brother UK Season 10 is well underway. I’ll be posting the odd BB clip to illustrate common conversations and issues, as a discussion trigger. You don’t have to watch the show to join in; the issues are standalone and everyday, and I’ll put in bits of background to give an idea of where people [...]

Posted in arts & entertainment, gender & feminism, Life, media, violence | Tagged abuse, bb, big brother, big brother uk, bullying, gay, harassment, homophobia, housemates, intimidation, sexuality and health, violence | 14 Responses

What cheeses me off – “parking permit abuse”

By Lauredhel on May 31, 2009

I bet this post is not what you think it’s going to be. What cheeses me off is Temporarily Able-Bodied (TAB) folk leaping to attribute accessible parking problems to “permit abuse”. (This can be broadened to other disability accommodations, also.) This is often their first and only response. “People With Disabilities (PWD) can’t find parking? [...]

Posted in ethics & philosophy, media, social justice, Sociology | Tagged abuse, accessibility, denial, disability, disabled parking, discrimination, harassment, parking permit, privilege, PWD | 10 Responses

Werribee rapist resurfaces from counselling with a musical boast

By Lauredhel on April 13, 2009

*** trigger warnings for Werribee gang-rape *** The Herald Sun carried this story yesterday, bylined Anthony Dowsley and Kelvin Healey. “Werribee sex DVD ringleader’s hate-filled rap song on web” (The title was “Sex bully taunts victim” yesterday.) And the opening line? [emphasis is mine] “A TEEN who posted a hate-filled rap about the Werribee sex [...]

Posted in gender & feminism, language, law & order, violence | Tagged abuse, counselling, gang rape, it's not sex it's rape, sexual violence | 33 Responses

Antibreastfeeding Bingo

By Lauredhel on February 20, 2009

We’ve done the other Bingos, and this one’s long overdue. With a nod to all the misogynist trolls out there who’ve provided the material for this card, I present: Antibreastfeeding Bingo! It’s focussed on public breastfeeding conversations, not “mommy wars” type conversations, which are well covered by the Bingo at Mom’s Tinfoil Hat, and by [...]

Posted in Culture, gender & feminism, law & order, Meta, social justice | Tagged abuse, babies, baby, bigotry, breastfeeding, breasts, conversations, gratuitous ogling, misogyny, moral panics, mums, Play Bingo!, reproductive justice, women | 58 Responses

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