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Nugget of Awesome: You Need To Get Off My Foot

Nugget of Awesome: You Need To Get Off My Foot

By tigtog on January 30, 2013

If you step on my foot, you need to get off my foot.

If you step on my foot without meaning to, you need to get off my foot.

If you step on my foot without realizing it, you need to get off my foot.

Posted in culture wars, ethics & philosophy, social justice | Tagged *ist, being an ally, calling out, nuggets of awesome | 18 Responses

Quote of the Day: playing the Game of Life on the lowest difficulty setting

Quote of the Day: playing the Game of Life on the lowest difficulty setting

By tigtog on May 16, 2012

A comment from Chuck Repke about 100 comments in on a post by John Scalzi, which I really recommend reading…

Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, social justice | Tagged being an ally, privilege | 10 Responses

So you add *I Don't Mean That In A Creepy Way* to the end of all the creepy things you say?  You're not fooling nearly so many people as you think you are.

A little advice gleaned from Condescending Wonka

By tigtog on May 14, 2012

If, after saying something, one feels the urge/need to say: “I don’t mean that in a creepy* way“, THEN ONE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO SAY IT IN THE FIRST PLACE.

Posted in ethics & philosophy, language, relationships | Tagged being an ally, creepy | 2 Responses

Being an Asexual Ally

Being an Asexual Ally

By Guest Hoyden on February 28, 2012

Being an ally means talking to people about asexuality and accepting their identity as they describe it. It means asking questions only when you’re genuinely interested in hearing the answer. If your mindset is already fixed at “I don’t quite understand x, therefore asexuality cannot be valid,” then do everyone a favour and just walk away.

Posted in relationships, social justice | Tagged being an ally, sexual expression, sexual identity, sexuality | 44 Responses

White privilege and the centring of white people in discussions of race and racism: a spinoff thread

By Lauredhel on July 23, 2008

This is a spinoff thread from our terrific guest post by Stephanie, “The privilege in your pocket: a manifesto”. I’m starting it from the first point where I requested that the rudeness (which involved centring of white people and scolding of WOC for their anger) cease. So here you go – if you’d like to [...]

Posted in social justice | Tagged apologist, being an ally, feelings, privilege, race & racism, WOC | 13 Responses

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