By tigtog on January 8, 2013
A few weeks ago a controversial tumblr was started which highlighted the OK Cupid dating profiles of certain men who claimed to be Nice/Decent Guys, but whose answers on optional stock questions set by OK Cupid revealed various degrees of Not-Nice/Not-Decent attitudes. Clementine lays out the back-story, analyses some of the criticisms, and comes to some conclusions.
Posted in gender & feminism, relationships | Tagged dating, double standards, entitlement, gendered roles, NiceGuysTM |
By tigtog on September 4, 2011
[TW for violently abusive language towards a woman] For those who haven’t come across this story, it starts when a man and a woman in New York came across each other on the OKCupid dating website and went out twice, were each less than enthralled with the other, and moved on. So far, so ordinary.
Posted in ethics & philosophy, media, relationships, Sociology | Tagged bullying, cyberbullying, dating, gaming, nerd-shaming, NiceGuysTM, trollumnists |
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