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By blue milk on January 22, 2012
This is a brilliantly thoughtful piece by La Lubu on a way forward for Feministe (related to this). There are some tough questions here, but also, some solid suggestions on what can be done to improve big feminist sites like Feministe for the people outside of mainstream power bases.
Can you ethically ignore power bestowed upon or generated by you when it would give you the opportunity as a feminist intellectual to change things on a significant scale for others? Also, what right do people have to expect this of individuals – Jill Filopovic is tired and apparently unwell, she is also beaten down with disgust at ‘mob mentality’ Internet behaviour? (But then La Lubu‘s questioning of what one defines as inappropriate Internet behaviour and what that says about you and your privilege has given me pause for thought. I am highly sympathetic to Filopovic with regards to her reaction to ‘mob mentality’, I find myself easily horrified by pile-ons and gotchas, too, but has this allowed us to ignore more important injustices – I don’t know?).
From La Lubu:
I want to speak to you on some of the overall dynamics I’m witnessing on these recent posts and comment threads. From my perspective, there is an almost corporate-style mode of abdication of responsibility. The fact that Feministe has multiple staff bloggers will necessarily result in this default in the absence of a formal structure of consensus among the bloggers and in the absence of a mission statement. It seems to me that Feministe vacillates between being a pop-culture entertainment blog; an informative source for international news relating to women and feminism; a galvanizing instrument for political action; and a “LiveJournal”-style space for venting. Although there is a comments policy, there isn’t a declared mission statement of….goals, dreams, boundaries of any sort on what Feministe is or wants to be; nor is there a transparent description or process of how conflict within the community will be resolved. For that matter, there isn’t a definition of the community—does it refer solely to the staff bloggers, or to the commentariat as well?
This is very alienating to me as a labor unionist, as I come from a tradition that has very clear statements on who and what we are, and clear boundaries on process, policy, and conflict resolution. The stock answer in the blogosphere at large is a mercantile one—”if you don’t like what we’re selling, take your business elsewhere.” I don’t necessarily perceive this to be the attitude of Feministe, but strongly feel that the absence of a mission statement and attendant processes contributes to the hostile dynamics in the comment section.
But back to the “corporate style” as I call it, which I see very frequently in the comment section and is clearly evident in the recent threads: an ahistoricity, a blurring of boundaries during controversy or conflict, an assertion of “objectivity”, “rationality” and dismissal of emotion (particularly anger)….these are all concepts essential to the construction of whiteness as a political identity (which is to say, a means of teaching the people who are taught they are white, how to be “white”. I say this because I’ve been getting a whole lot of folks dropping by this blog lately since I was linked on Maya’s post at Alas, and I want to be crystal-clear to people unfamiliar with the term “white” as referring to anything other than light skin. I’m talking about the “whitewashing” of people of European descent; the assimilation into a “whiteness” that exists solely in opposition to people of color and other colonized persons). Even if the overt hostility of the comment section were abated, the affirmation of the ways and means of middle-class white communication are very uninviting (to say the least).
Because, this below from La Lubu also, is pretty spot on…
“The feminist blogosphere is: young, but not too young (25-35); mostly white (and of northern european extraction); middle to upper-middle class; highly educated (always degreed, usually grad school or law degree); able-bodied and healthy; non-religious (but typically with a Protestant or Jewish background); childfree by choice (also not a caretaker of an elderly or disabled adult); body size from thin to very thin; cisgender; heterosexual; conventionally feminine/pretty; fashionable; not employed in a nontraditional (>25% female participation) workforce; native English speaking (family of origin usually native English speaking also); non-indigenous and several generations removed from immigrant ancestors; raised in a nuclear family (either intact or divorced—but not “unwed” or extended family); lives in a large metropolis; favors capitalism; unmarried/unpartnered (meaning: no formal or legal ties of responsibility to a partner); never incarcerated (no family incarcerated either); and has plenty of personal contact with people in positions of actual power (gets invited to policymaking meetings/summits).”
Cross-posted at blue milk.
UPDATE: Just a quick note to acknowledge that tigtog is a non-editorial member of the Feministe team (as she says below) and some of our writers here are also past and current members of that writing team. I forgot all this, somehow, when I hit publish on this cross-post. Having remembered the connection – thanks to tig tog’s comment – I thought I better make it clear, dear readers, that it was a poor oversight on my part not to state HAT’s connections to the Feministe blog right up front and to not also make it clear that my post is not intended as a group-comment from HAT (who weren’t consulted in the drafting of my post). I am interested in La Lubu‘s post, not precisely because it is aimed at Feministe but because it is asking big questions about rights and responsibilities in terms of blogging.
Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism, Meta, relationships | Tagged blogging, the blogosphere |
By Chally on January 22, 2012
Jet Silver wanted to know my favourite place in Australia. I’ve been struggling with this one. It’s a vast and beautiful country, full of unforgettable people and landscapes that will challenge your mind.
I love Sydney, my city, fiercely. I love how ridiculous people are about defending their own little slice of town, and I love that it’s so expansive that I’ll never visit all of it. It’s a bit like Fantasia in The Neverending Story like that. I love standing on the beaches and feeling my spirit rise and stretch to fill the space between sea and sky. Hey, I even love walking down George St first thing in the morning after it has suffered the upchuck of many a drunken reveller. It’s a reminder that other people are enjoying this city, too.
I love drives through country towns and everyone instantly knowing we’re tourists from the city. I love that the Blue Mountains really do shine blue in the sun. I love that I don’t understand everyone’s accent. I love my memory of my first time crossing the border from NSW to Victoria, and looking out at that beautiful countryside just weeks before it all burned down.
And I loved the next time I went to Victoria, a year and a half later. Melbourne, to sort of answer your question, Jet, is my favourite city. I was waiting for a tram on my favourite street with a friend one night when some white guy started frenetically yelling furious racist abuse at another man driving past. Then he stopped, turned to my friend and politely asked her, ‘Do you have the time? Sorry, I’m not usually racist, but that guy…’ We pissed off to the next stop pretty fast, before the guy could peer through the gloom to that woman hiding under layers of clothing and behind her friend, and realise she was one of them. It wasn’t the first time, of course, but I’d been feeling so safe and happy and, in a way I never am in Sydney, off my guard. So that’s my memory of my favourite street in my favourite city in all the world tainted.
I don’t know how to answer your question, Jet, because it’s a question with so many potential answers in such an amazing land, and it’s also a question of which place is the least painful. I don’t feel right being on stolen land. I don’t feel right being on land where many white people would like me to piss off back where I came from, and then turn around and politely ask my white friends for the time. I ultimately don’t feel safe or comfortable here, but I don’t know what it is to live anywhere else. I have favourite moments rather than favourite places, really, and my best ones are of standing on those beaches. I like to stand on borders, where the land crumbles, with my feet planted here and my heart facing the possibility of everywhere.
Crossposted at Zero at the Bone.
Posted in Life, social justice | Tagged australia, melbourne, race & racism, sydney |
By tigtog on January 22, 2012

Scientists observe penguins underwater in Antarctica | Photograph by Maria Stenzel, National Geographic
How did we miss Penguin Awareness Day on Friday? Oh the shame.
Here, check out The 25 Most Important Penguin Gifs On The Internet
Now onto the most important question: otter vs penguin underwater* cage match – who wins?
(*yes, there’s an airspace at the top, so it’s not just a breath-holding competition)
Maybe we’d end up with a love-in, and then? Otter-penguins!
Or else there could just be singing.
Posted in education, fun & hobbies | Tagged fur & fluff, gratuitous awesome, otters, penguin
By tigtog on January 21, 2012
Today’s otter video is a tribute to the passing of an online Best Mate who loved and was most particular about the quality of his coffee, whisky, urban legends, puns, poker and pointed sarcasm. I hadn’t heard from him for a while, and I was terribly sad to hear of his death. Vale atque ave, Phil Gustafson – somewhere a JATO car is pacing your passage, and somehow a scuba suit is involved.
Video Description: Mythbusters – Sea Otter Shenanigans
A sea otter interrupts a Mythbusters experiment using ping-pong balls to attempt to raise a wrecked vessel from the depths. The playful sea mammal couldn’t resist the gleaming white spheres, and kept on taking them out of position. Given that there are severe penalties for disturbing the wildlife in the Bay, the Mythbusters team start trying to decide which one should take the blame and pay the court fine. Luckily, after an extended period of otter mischief, they manage to persuade the otter to leave with no harm done.
Please feel free to use this thread to natter about anything your heart desires. Is there anything great happening in your life? Anything you want to get off your chest? Reading a good book (or a bad one)? Anything in the news that you’d like to discuss? What have you created lately? Commiserations, felicitations, temptations, contemplations, speculations?
Posted in Life | Tagged fur & fluff, open thread, otterday, otters, vicious little weasels |
By blue milk on January 20, 2012
I didn’t make these so I can’t give you any baking or food preparation tips, I think they look kinda self-explanatory. I’m just putting the idea out there and lettin’ you know that with a little bit of effort you could be the type of very interesting person who makes and eats art.

Image: Rothko-inspired biscuits from here.

Image: Mondrian-inspired sandwhich from here.
And for something different, next time I will post an actual womenscraft that I made myself.
Posted in arts & entertainment, fun & hobbies | Tagged Food/Drink
By Helen on January 20, 2012

Salut!
A few days ago I caught up with Tigtog, who’d flown to Melbourne from Sydney to attend
the AdaCamp unconference. I also had the opportunity to meet other people I’ve “met” in the blogosphere, including Mary Gardiner.
Mary is, of course, one of our Hoyden authors, and the co-founder of the
Ada Initiative, besides other achievements and activities too numerous to mention here.
Yesterday, on Twitter, we learned that Linux Australia has just awarded the the Rusty Wrench Award to Mary:
The Rusty Wrench Award is an award started by Jeff Waugh to recognise outstanding service to the [linux / open source] community. It was named after Rusty Russell, one of Australia’s most prominent contributors and community members who started linux.conf.au (before it was called linux.conf.au :) and has been a source of inspiration and amusement for a number of years. The award is presented to a person of the previous awardees choice, in liason with the Linux Australia Council.
I want to join with all the Hoydens in raising a virtual glass of open source champers and toasting Mary on her award. Congratulations, Mary!
Posted in technology | Tagged open source technology |
By tigtog on January 19, 2012
The other point I want to make here, which goes back to my objection to anti-black racism being used as a rhetorical device by those who will never face it, is that black people engage in tons of behaviours to make white people feel safer. We do this all the damn time. We make accommodations in speech, behaviour, dress, mannerism, conversation topic – a wide diversity of adjustments that we make in the presence of our white friends. We want them to feel comfortable around us, and we accept the inherent racism of the need for such changes. The fact that you rail against its manifest unfairness is indicative of the fact that you have no idea we’re doing it – which means, in turn, that we’re doing it well. Until I am convinced that you actually understand anti-black racism (which would take quite a bit of doing), I don’t appreciate being deputized into your anti-feminist screed in this way.
The full post at Free Thought Blogs -Shuffling feet: a black man’s view on Schroedinger’s Rapist
Posted in ethics & philosophy, gender & feminism | Tagged race & racism, rape culture
By blue milk on January 18, 2012
This is brand new father and mega-famous rapper, Jay-Z:
Before I got in the game, made a change, and got rich/ I didn’t think hard about using the word bitch/I rapped, I flipped it, I sold it, I lived it/Now with my daughter in this world I curse those that give it.
No man will degrade her, or call her name/I’m so focused on your future, the degradation has passed/ I wish you wealth, health and insight/Forever young you may pass/Blue Ivy Carter, my angel.
And more from this thought-provoking article from Lisa Belkin (hi!) at the Huffington Post:
Jay-Z is not the first man to realize he has been a misogynistic jerk only after he has a daughter.
Okay, maybe the academic studies don’t use those words exactly, but one, from the University of Maryland titled “Like Daughter, Like Father: How Women’s Wages Change When CEOs Have Daughters,” found that the birth of a girl to a male CEO closes the wage gap at his company by .5 percentage points, and if that daughter is the CEOs first child the gap closes by 2.8 percentage points.)
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That same switch might flip some of a father’s political views, too. A study of the voting records of US Congressmen found that those with daughters voted more liberally on issues of reproductive rights, flexible work policies and funding for education. And data on British families found that fathers with three sons and no daughters were far more likely to vote for conservative candidates than were fathers of three daughters and no sons.
“Daughters make people more left-wing, while having sons, by contrast, makes them more right-wing” the author of that last study, Andrew Oswald of the University of Warwick said when it was released in 2009.
Still, world, we can’t wait for every man to have a daughter – men, find your feminism NOW.
UPDATE: Jay-Z didn’t really write that poem.
(Cross-posted at blue milk).
Posted in arts & entertainment, gender & feminism, language, parenting | Tagged gendered slurs, raunch culture |
By Jo Tamar on January 18, 2012
I have completed the 2012 Australian Women Writers Challenge!
This post is to record how I went compared to my challenge criteria, and to give a very short overview of each book.
First, the books. They were:
Continue reading “2012 Australian Women Writers Challenge in summary”
Posted in arts & entertainment, Culture, gender & feminism | Tagged australian women writers challenge, books & writing, women authors, women's writing |
By tigtog on January 17, 2012
A timely article in light of our current posts featuring the 2012 Australian Women Writers Challenge:
A woman’s place | Sexism in literature
by Jane Sullivan | The Age
Blogger Elizabeth Lhuede writes: “It took me years to realise that I had been educated to privilege men’s writing over women’s. Like a lot of girls educated in the ’70s and ’80s, I grew up reading a canon of ‘great literature’ written by men (and, primarily, for men) … At school we read almost exclusively male writers … our one woman author was Jane Austen.”
The trend continued at university, though more women authors were studied.
“Without realising it, I was being educated into the view that ‘good’ writing focused on something other than [what were then primarily] women’s interests and concerns — relationships, domesticity, ‘feelings’, the woman’s point of view (except as rendered by ‘masters’ like Henry James and D.H. Lawrence). Subject matter concerning women was regarded as trivial, ephemeral, sloppy and sentimental,” Luehde writes.
This is a description of education that V.S. Naipaul would recognise as I do. I know it’s changed since then. Feminist theory has had an impact on university courses, for example. And yet, how can you get past that at primary school level boys will read books by men but are dragged reluctantly to books by women, while girls will read books by anyone? Boys need a male protagonist while girls will go with either gender?
Where would J.K.Rowling have got to, I wonder, if she’d written as Joan Rowling about the wizard heroine called Hermione?
This is where the reading iceberg starts growing: at school. This is where we form our beliefs and prejudices. Later in life we often change our minds or other people try to persuade us to think otherwise but first impressions run deep.
via Kerryn Goldsworthy on FB
Posted in arts & entertainment, education, gender & feminism | Tagged australian women writers challenge, books & writing, exclusion, gendered roles |
By Jo Tamar on January 17, 2012
Unpolished Gem by Alice Pung
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Blurb from Goodreads
This is an original take on a classic story – how a child of immigrants moves between two cultures. In place of piety and predictability, however, Unpolished Gem offers a vivid and ironic sense of both worlds. It combines the story of Pung’s life growing up in suburban Footscray with the inherited stories of the women in her family – stories of madness, survival and heartbreak. Original and brave, this is a girl’s own story that introduces an unforgettable voice and captures the experience of Asian immigrants to Australia.
My review
First, a bit of background to my reading of this book. I grew up in a part of Sydney where there were many people of Asian descent. Those who were my age had often either been born in Australia to parents who were recent immigrants, or had come to Australia as children. Many of my friends were of Asian descent, from a variety of ethnic and cultural backgrounds. I tended to see the similarities between my friends and me – they were, after all, my friends – and I often did not understand why they reacted to certain things so differently, especially in relation to their interactions and relationships with their families.
In the years since high school, I have grown to understand much more. Unpolished Gem allowed me to take another leap in my understanding of some of my friends. At the very least, this means that if Ms Pung is writing for the wider Australian audience, to give them an insight into the life of a certain section of the Australian community, she has nailed it. (I am quite curious to know if she has nailed the audience within the section of the Australian community she is writing about.)
Ms Pung’s writing is impeccable. By this I mean not that her sentences and paragraphs are well-structured and grammatically correct, although they are that, too, but that Ms Pung’s narrative allows the reader to step inside the book and, to a significant extent, empathise with her. The reader is, accordingly, able to understand Ms Pung’s emotional reactions to the situations she describes. It was this which allowed me to come to a much better understanding about my friends than I had before. It is not that I think all – or, even, any – of my friends had precisely the same experiences as Ms Pung, but that, by understanding the background in Ms Pung’s story, I was able to better imagine what might have been happening for my friends in similar situations.
Such an understanding is important to me personally, and may be important personally to many others. It is also important socially. Ms Pung’s family has much in common, in terms of experiences and background, with many other Australians and their families – not only those who came to Australia at around the same time as, and in similar circumstances to, Ms Pung’s family, but those who are coming to Australia now. In order to ensure that we can be an Australian community, as many of us as possible from as many parts of Australian society need to have some insight into other parts of our society. Unpolished Gem will help to increase the level of insight between communities.
Finally, this book is also an excellent story, rather than merely a piece of writing about what happened. As a result, this book is likely to be quite an enjoyable read for those who, like me, do not normally enjoy non-fiction and memoir writing as much as fiction.
This is a review for the 2012 Australian Women Writers Challenge. You can see my full list of books here. You can find a full list of my reviews, and other posts relevant to the challenge, here.
Cross-posted.
Posted in arts & entertainment, Culture, gender & feminism | Tagged australian women writers challenge, books & writing, class, literature, race & racism, sexism, women authors, women's writing |
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