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Lauredhel is an Australian woman and mother with a disability. She blogs about disability and accessibility, social and reproductive justice, gender, freedom from violence, the uses and misuses of language, medical science, otters, gardening, and cooking.

18 responses to ““But what do we CAAAALL them?” – the language of shackling”

  1. bri

    Thanks for the link to the style guide! Very handy to have something like that…on hand. I freely admit I still constantly correct myself for using ablist language but I hope the fact I am at least aware of the problematic nature of ablist language and work to stop myself using it, counts for something. I get very frustrated trying to explain the concept to people who just do not want to ‘get it’ though. Same goes with racism etc too. Some people (like the journo you speak of above) simply do not want to get it.

  2. bri

    Unfortunately, the link to the style guide doesn’t work. Well it works but the style guide is not longer there…

  3. Nothing to add to the comments in the article other than thanks for the style guide, and alert you to the fact I’m going to be stealing the term “meatwire”. It is too awesome not to use, and would fit perfectly into a story that I eventually want to tell.

    Which actually brings up a completely different question. With writing for news or analysis you obviously should try to avoid being an ass and doing hurtful and shitty things… but where does this line get drawn when you’re writing fiction? I think I can tell how strongly I’m willing to portray trans-hatred or homophobia in most of their flavors, but the balancing of how far to push other privileged actions and views in my characters isn’t one I’ve considered yet. Considering that discriminatory and hateful people are likely to float to the top in the situation I’m writing about, I think I need to spend some time pondering it.

    mmmph. food for thought, thanks for the article.

  4. Can’t say too much other than it’s an unpleasant story about the abuse of power and the glorifying of privilege.. even though I wouldn’t have used those words when I started on it years ago. I’m not exactly a quick writer, and my art has taken a good bit of time to mature enough for me to consider moving forward with the writing. I’m glad I’ve waited though, the intervening years lead me here and to other places where I’ve learned how oblivious I was to exactly what I wanted to talk about.

    One bit for it though… this is the first character I’ve managed to really firm in.

  5. Quixotess

    Where’s your comment, Lauredhal? I don’t see it at all on David’s post.

    And jeebus that “drug users” thing *is* bizarre.

  6. su

    Not a conversation I have had yet but the PSA’s on the ABC (and other stations perhaps? ) about autism are just horrible. I absolutely loathe the idea of hamstringing the future of my child by contributing to a culture of ableism, all in the name of wringing sympathy and money out of people. I am working on a letter.

  7. orlando

    Is “fully moderate” a euphemism for “don’t allow people who actually know what they’re talking about within coo-ee”?

  8. katarina

    Both of Laurelhed’s comments are there. She hasn’t been censored.

  9. katarina

    No problem, Lauredhal. It was there yesterday too.

  10. Pharaohkatt

    Wow, the majority of comments in that thread are awful! Seriously, “PC dimwits”? Or the rant about the use of the word accessible, “does that mean a regular toilet isn’t accessible, ha ha ha”. Actually, yes. For some people with disabilities, a regular toilet is *not* accessible. Stuck-up arse stains >:-(

    Here’s a novel concept: how about allowing people with disabilities define themselves, instead of trying to decide for them? Shocking, I know. But it just might work!

    {hugs} Lauredhel, you shouldn’t have to put up with teeth-grindingly arrogant arseholery.

  11. sanda

    “Wheelchair user” has long been settled as language in the US, even if ignored. It has been listed in the AP’s (Associated Press) Language Guidebook (not exact title) since the mid1980s. I reminded the NYTimes of that when it had an article about an author getting a McArthur Award (Dubus), that we’re not “wheelchair bound” or
    “confined to wheelchair”. I think it is up to us, wheelchair users, to say how we wish to be labeled. The argument got played out in the US in the 1980s, but, sometimes ignored, as I said.
    “wheelchair restricted” implies a section of audience reserved for wheelchair users ONLY. (Without humor, where’d we be?)

  12. sanda

    PS (CFS/ME is the ps disease, I named it) Alas, there are segregated sections for wheelchair users at various arenas, such as baseball stadiums, some auditoriums.
    My preference is an aisle wide enough to sit in my wheelchair with spouse/aide or friend, seated in aisle seat next to me, or behind, if it’s “movable” chairs (not to be confused with mobile chairs = wheelchairs). This kind of discussion brings out the wicked wit in me. Along with the serious.

  13. plainjane

    Here in the U.S., the ignorant, priveleged asshats who whine when people ask them to examine the implications of the words they use and so nobly declare that they won’t be bothered to walk on eggshells to avoid offending some oversensitive lesser being are the ones who blow a gasket when a store employee wishes them “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”.

    Really, what is so hard about asking actual people how they wish to be addressed or referred to and taking steps to avoid being a jerk?

  14. tigtog

    @plainjane

    are the ones who blow a gasket when a store employee wishes them “Happy Holidays” instead of “Merry Christmas”

    I had never made that connection, and it’s so very true. Thanks for the insight.

    PS I wonder how to frame that comparison most effectively to make an educable point.

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