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11 responses to “Deveny! Deveny! Deveny!”

  1. Mindy

    Interesting stuff from Dale Spender (quoted here)

    Dale Spender observed in 1982 that teachers find it very hard to ensure a balance between boys’ and girls’ contributions, but when specifically trying to achieve equal participation, female teachers were better at it than male ones. One male teacher who did manage to get girls to talk as much as boys said afterwards that he’d felt like he was giving almost all his attention to the girls. Since boys, girls and teachers are all complicit in boys’ dominance, it makes sense that one of these parties would find it tough to change the group dynamics all on their own.

    What that bit doesn’t mention is that the boys in the class thought the girls got all the talking time too. So it starts young.

  2. Megpie71

    A bit of a tangent here, but my first reaction to the whole “honour, obey and submit” thing was “I had no idea Anglican marriage was supposed to be a Dom/Sub relationship. Gee, talk about BDSM in the mainstream. Do they discuss safewords in the pre-counselling period?”.

  3. Mindy

    My jaw just dropped when I read that the first time TT. I couldn’t believe how easily we had all been sucked into it, but it is so true.

  4. Pippa

    When I first started reading your post about Monday nights Q&A, and a supposedly outspoken guest being on the panel, I thought I must have watched a different program to the one being written about.
    The 2 main impressions I was left with at the end of the program are.

    1. That Peter Jenson was so far out of touch with the reality of facts about self esteem and psychology that he is unable to see that the Church’s attitude is legitimizing discrimation and negative attitudes towards Gay people. This is going to cause a decrease in self esteem of anyone who is Gay, and provide legitimacy for anyone who feels like acting or even thinking in a negative way towards Gay people.

    2. That Tony Jones stepped over the line at the end of the show by inviting Peter Jenson to give what was basically a sermon.

    cheers,
    Pip

  5. Sheryl

    Deveny’s description of the Bible (“the only religious text I’m familiar with”) also included a statement that it is a book of 44 chapters written by 60 people (“I think”) in 3 different languages over thousands of years.

    This rather vague and inaccurate description left me doubting the extent of her familiarity with the text. I would have expected someone declaring it to be “basically social engineering embedded in fairytales and horror stories which is just chock full of homophobia, misogyny, discrimination and division” to be sufficiently familiar with it that they could be clearer about such things as authorship and canon.

  6. angharad

    An interesting follow-on to that post here.

    Peter Jensen’s ‘I just want to have a calm reasoned debate’ makes him sound like a concern troll.

  7. Nell

    I rarely watch Q&A – I live in Western Australia and find the continual invitations to join the conversation on a program that stopped taking interactions hours ago infuriating – but I did see it last Monday. I found Peter Jensen’s demeanour and his attitudes profoundly irritating and cheered for Catherine Deveney but why do people persist in looking at the whole Christian faith as if these bigots are the majority when they are clearly not. Peter Jensen does not speak for the Anglican church. He and his followers are only a small part of a huge community. Pretty much everywhere except in Jensen’s flock these ideas are out-dated and unaccepted. For example the rest of the Anglican church has had women clergy for years.
    For what it’s worth I was brought up as a Christian but have not been part of any Church for around twenty years. I just try to stay informed about community issues and to see both sides.

  8. Emma

    Megpie, that is gold!

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