Have heard/read a few too many examples of this phrase as some sort of deflector shield recently:
If, after saying something, one feels the urge/need to say:
“I don’t mean that in a creepy* way“,
THEN ONE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO SAY IT IN THE FIRST PLACE.
*sexist/racist/homophobic/classist etc
(made a version over at memecreator too)
Categories: ethics & philosophy, language, relationships
Yes, like prefacing thoughtless comments with “No offence, but..”
Uh, guess what sunshine…
I’m not racist/sexist/homophobic etc., but …